My Spoken Lullaby
I rock them to sleep with spoken lullabies of love. Love that never fails and endures through time. The love of their mother who prays to be enough. The love of Grandparents in heaven who are always near. And the greatest Love of all. The Love that heals broken hearts and dreams. The Love that soothes fears and promises a life complete. The Love that brings light to the dark and joy to the sad. Their lullaby is a story of children loved so deeply on both sides of the veil.
Sunday, August 20, 2023
I Climbed a Mountain with My Mom
She was in the lead, fearlessly braving huge canyons and steep cliffs.
I was terrified, but her look of calm reassured me that all would be well.
We reached the top and sat and watched the valley, surveying our climb together.
There were no words, only hugs.
I then woke up, but know that in this climb tomorrow where I welcome Atticus to the world,
My Mom will be there.
Sunday, April 07, 2019
Birthday Letter to my Scarlet
Our nightly ritual is a nuggle while we recount your good deeds. Your heart is generous and truthful, you give more than you take. You think of others first. My heart swells each morning when you find me first thing, waiting to start your day until after you’ve given me love. You are love.
Love you forever and a day,
Mom
Saturday, March 24, 2018
Hands
I was holding both my parent's hands during their final moments on earth. In death, both of their hands were nothing like what they were in life.
My dad's hands at his death were weak, bony, and fragile. Words I would never have used to describe my father. Strong and kind, his hands were warn and calloused from work. Big and comforting, I remember holding them and counting the freckles, all the while feeling safe knowing those hands loved me and took care of me.
My mom's hands at death were bloated and fleshy; nothing like her delicate hands in life. She had gorgeous hands that were masters of the piano, organ, and cello. They were sinuous and strong, yet always soft and gentle. She used those hands to raise ten children with equal parts strength and sweet. I loved my mom's hands and often wished mine were exactly the same.
I now hold my children's hands and wonder if they memorize my hands the way I memorized my parents. I hope they find comfort in my hands. I hope they feel safe when holding their Father's hands. I hope the years of tickles, diaper changes, bum pinches, cooking lessons, cartwheel lessons, owie kissing, hair playing, scripture reading, foot massaging, school homework, dance/piano/soccer, never-ending sacrament meetings, clean blitzing, and praying, show my kids the love my flawed hands have for them.
I have memorized my Savior's hands, marked and scarred for me. Through my trials I have become closely acquainted with my Savior and his unending atonement. He's turned any feelings of resentment and pain, to peace and gratitude that I am so blessed.
I can't wait for that final day when the Savior will hopefully look at my hands, worn and calloused, and tell me, "Well done. Way to use them up."
Sunday, May 29, 2016
Alice's 9 Year Birthday Letter
My Alice,
I am so proud of the person you are becoming. You are observant, kind, whip smart and lovely. I see you now figuring out how the world works and where you fit in. But I have a secret for you, my love; you are not meant to fit in. You are meant to make your own way and inspire others to do the same. Today at your birthday party, you looked at your friends and told me you have the best friends because no one cared about what you looked like, they all just cared about the person you are. I am amazed that at age nine you figured this out! You have those amazing friends because YOU are that amazing friend. The secret is to find out what makes you happy and peaceful, then be brave enough to follow that. Others, the right type of others, will follow.
My hope for you is to keep on being brave enough to think for yourself, to be more kind than you sometimes feel, and to always have the strength to look to God first.
Your Heavenly Parents know you better than you know yourself. Talk to them about everything; your plans, dreams and fears, and I promise they are listening and working for your good. They want you to use your precious gift of agency to become your best self. They've known you for millennias. They made you from star dust and they don't make copies. There is only one you.
I am so grateful for my star. I love you for millennias and more.
Love,
Mom
Thursday, April 28, 2016
Scarlet's 7 Year Birthday Letter
My darling Scarlet,
As you turn seven I marvel at the blessing it is to be your mother. You are a special soul filled with love and nurturing. I've often thought of us in heaven before we came here. I know we were best friends who decided to do this earth life together. You knew I needed you. I am honored you let me be your mom. You teach me to forgive everyone, everything, everyday. You have a heart that sees the best in everyone and you share that with them. You have positivity and humor that shines and lights us all. I am grateful you are my daughter. I am grateful you are my teacher. I am grateful you are you.
I love you for ever and always,
Momma
Wednesday, March 23, 2016
Monday, December 28, 2015
Atticus 1 Year Letter
You are such a special spirit. The second you were born, I knew you were sent here to make our family complete. I cannot imagine life without my baby, Atticus. Your laughter and ready smile make every day a delight. I sometimes make you stay up late, because I just want to bask in your attention and love. You were sent to earth at a rough time for me as both my parents passed away. But, I know Heavenly Father loves me and is mindful of me because he sent YOU to me during that time. I cannot help but be happy every time I look at you. I am so proud to be your mother, and I love you more that you will ever know.
Thank you for turning what could have been a hard year, into the best year of my life. I LOVE YOU!!